Relaxed Elegance: Velvet Holiday Looks for Women Over 50

As we count down to Thanksgiving and the start of the holiday season, I’m savoring these last calm(ish) days before the festivities kick in. Every year I promise myself I’ll get a jump on planning, gifts, and yes, figuring out what I’m going to wear to the various gatherings on the calendar. Over time, I’ve learned to put together a few holiday outfits early so I’m not scrambling at the last minute.

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Festive, Not Fussy: Why Velvet Works for the Holidays

My holiday mantra remains “festive, not fussy.” That applies to my home, my entertaining style, and of course, what I wear. I don’t think anyone should have to sacrifice comfort for style, even for parties. And I’m not a fan of one-off special-occasion pieces that spend the rest of the year tucked away. Instead, I gravitate toward separates that feel elevated but can also be dressed down for everyday looks.

Holiday Outfit Idea: Relaxed Velvet Separates

Today’s holiday outfit idea starts with a relaxed shirt and wide leg pants in velvet from Frank & Eileen. Both pieces are available in multiple colors, I’ve shown here in Navy.

👉 Sizing note: the pants run small, would suggest going up a size.

Look 1: Polished Velvet for Cocktails or Work Events

For cocktails, dinner out, or a work gathering, a column of color (as with this holiday look) creates instant polish. Head-to-toe velvet keeps the outfit elevated but still comfortable, and the accessories add a hint of warmth and shine.

Look 2: Casual Velvet Layers for Brunch or an Open House

For a holiday open house, brunch, or casual family get-together, I swapped the pants for dark-wash trouser jeans and added a playful leopard-print turtleneck. The velvet shirt can be worn open as a jacket or fully buttoned. Mixing accessory textures keeps the outfit interesting without overpowering the look. (Though many save their lighter colored bags for the spring and summer months, I think a white or off-white bag adds an interesting pop to fall and winter outfits.)

Look 3: Cozy Velvet for the Day-After-Thanksgiving

One of my favorite holiday traditions is getting together for leftovers the day after Thanksgiving. Maybe there’s a football game to watch. Comfort is key. Here I’ve styled the pants with a turtleneck cashmere sweater, metallic flats, and added a scarf for color and pattern.

More Velvet Picks for the Season

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Holiday Style Tips for Effortless Dressing

Dressing up for the holidays doesn’t have to mean sequins or shapewear (unless you love them, in which case, shine on! ✨). Color, texture, and thoughtful accessories can instantly elevate your look. More festive outfit ideas are on the way, so be sure you’re subscribed to my newsletter to catch new posts. What holiday events are you looking forward to?

Need some holiday gift inspiration? Visit my Comfort & Joy Gift Guide.

Note: this article was previously published on November 7, 2024, and has been updated to provide new and relevant product selections.

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