On a personal note…
I’ll be taking a short blogging break for the next couple of weeks or so. My husband’s ALS has progressed rapidly in recent weeks. He’s now in his final few days, and I need to give him (and our family) my full attention. He is resting comfortably, thanks to the Hospice team, who are absolute angels.
I’ve read and appreciate all of your kind notes, comments, and emails over the last few weeks, and apologize if I’m not able to respond to all of them. Please know that your support means so much to me.
An update: “le Monsieur” passed away peacefully Sunday morning. I already miss him terribly, but am relieved that he is no longer suffering. His family has been a great help at this time.
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Sending loads of caring thoughts your way. Peace to you at this hard time.
Since your husband’s diagnosis, your grace, dignity and stoicism (even though you probably felt anything but) has been awe inspiring. My thoughts are with during this terribly difficult time, God bless.
So very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Susan
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Hattie Clay
So shocked and saddened to hear your news, Susan. I’m sending love and good thoughts your way.
Godspeed, Susan. Please don’t worry about us. Just take care of yourself and your dear husband. Praying for you both. Thank you for all the joy and wisdom you’ve given us over the years.
I am so sorry to hear the sad news about your husband. it is so very difficult to lose someone who is so dear to you. Please take all the time you need to attend to the needs of your husband, yourself and your family. Fashion will always be there when you are able to come back to it as will all of your supportive followers. ✨️
Thoughts and payers are with you and your family.
Annick
Oh, Susan, it breaks my heart to read this. Peace to your husband and to you, and to all in your life. I’m so glad you have wonderful Hospice people there for both of you.
Holding you and your family in the Light.
Oh my dear I’m so very sorry for you and your family. I didn’t know the nature of your husband’s illness, this is devastating. May your final days with him be cloaked in love and serenity.
My prayers are with you and your family.
May peace and comfort be with you during this chapter; your love shines in the picture of you together and always will.
I’m so sorry – how hard. I hope your time with him is peaceful and that your wonderful memories will help you.
Sending you, your husband, and your family, thoughts and prayers.
Sending love and light and peace to you and your family.
You and your husband are in my prayers. Take all the time you need and focus on your and your family’s needs.
my thoughts are with you.
My thoughts are with you as well as prayers. Peace be with you and your husband during this difficult time.
Dear Susan
I am so very sorry for what you are going through with your husband and his illness. My heart goes out to you. I have been following you for the last 7 years, and you have helped me enhance my own clothing style. You also helped me pack a very successful wardrobe for a visit to Paris in 2013. Again, I am so sorry for your difficulties. I had no idea.
You are in my thoughts.
Take care,
Lynda Mackenzie
Wishing you peace and love during these difficult days.
I’m so sorry. Lots of love to you and your family.
I am so sorry.
Been reading you for years but rarely commented. But now I need to – I am so, so sorry to hear this news about your husband. I hope you both can find peace and comfort in the coming days.
I am so sorry, Susan. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your husband and family. You’ve put out so much good into the world and I hope that at this difficult time you feel all of the support, loyalty and love that your community has for you.
Thoughts, prayers and peace to you and your husband Susan.
Susan,
Please know you both will be in my heart and prayers. Thank you for sharing as much of your private life as you do; your words help us all realize each person carries burdens of which we know nothing. We should remember that as we encounter every person in our lives. Please take care of yourself as you walk this road.
Dear Susan,
Take all the time you need. You and your family are the priority. I have enjoyed reading about your travels over the years and appreciate your zest. Peace and comfort to you and your family.
This is heartbreaking to read. Thinking of you.
Rarely commented but feel I must now. Take all the time you need to spend with family at this most difficult time and may this time be spent in peace and love.
Dear Susan,
So very sorry to learn this news. May the love of your family and friends carry you through the coming weeks.
In peace,
Mary Ellen
Dear Susan,
My heart goes out to you and your husband at this most difficult of times. I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts in the days to come. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Sending thoughts of comfort and strength to you and your family during this difficult time.
Such a difficult period, do whatever you need for you and your family.
Thank you for taking the time to let us know.
Biggest hugs.
Suz from Vancouver
Hi Susan, I am so sorry to hear of your husbands decline. I can’t imagine how very hard that must be. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.
Susan,
I’ve never commented before but have enjoyed your blog for years. Sending you light and strength and wishing you and your husband peace during this impossible time.
I’m so sorry. This must be a very difficult time for you and your family. I echo what a few others have said – take your time to come back to us. Please take care of yourself!
Susan, I am so sorry to hear about your husband’s situation. I don’t know how I missed that he has been living with ALS. My daughter lost her husband to ALS in December 2020 two years and four months after his diagnosis. Our family has seen what this devastation this disease brings to the patient and the family. I pray that your husband has a peaceful transition and I pray for the healing of your heart.
I’m so sorry. My thoughts are with you in this difficult time.
I am very very sorry to hear about your husband. I so admire your grace and point of view. I know what a comfort you must be at this point in his journey. And how devastating it must be for you and your family. This is so hard. May there be peace in his passing. Much love to you and yours.
I feel so much compassion for you and your family. We lost our dear son to ALS in 2018, at age 44. It is a cruel and devastating disease, and it is difficult to watch a loved one succumb to its effects. I hope you have all the support you need from your hospice team, your friends, and your community. Big hugs, dear Susan.
Please accept my thoughts for you and your family. I had no idea you were on this terrible journey. I pray he has a peaceful transition. You are a very strong person to have continued to Post during your heartbreak.
Lifting up prayer for you, your husband and family to be blessed with comfort, support, love, and peace, and we will be here when you return.
I’m so very sorry. Will be thinking of you in the days ahead.
I am sad to hear this Susan! A R’fuah sh’lemah headed your way.
This is heart-breaking news., and there are no words. I am so sorry for your husband, you, and your family.
Please know I’m thinking of you and family.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
I am not far away….if you need ANY task performed or errand completed , please don’t hesitate to reach out.
My heart goes out to you and your husband. My mother died from ALS years ago and it was so hard to watch her steady decline and knowing there was nothing anyone could do or anything that could help. I’ll be thinking of you both and sending you my love.
Thinking of you, Susan, during this difficult time. Praying for peace and strength for you.
So, so sorry to hear this. All the best to you both.
Sending you strength and caring thoughts! Hugs to you and your family. You are in my prayers. xx
I am thinking of you and your family in this sad and difficult time.
You and your beloved husband are in my heart. Mi Sheberach.
adding you to my prayer list.
God love you for your valiant spirit during such difficulties.
Dear Susan,
Wishing peace and comfort for you. Best of luck in these hard days.
-Elizabeth
I am so sorry, there are no words.Sending love to you and your family.
I’ve followed your blog for years and never commented. I’m so sorry to read this today . I hope you know your followers are thinking of you and your husband at this very difficult time.
Oh Susan I’m so very sorry. All my best to you and your family. My heart aches for you. XO Sally
Big hugs to you and your family, Susan.
Sending peace and love to you, your husband, and family.
Oh Susan. I am so sorry to hear that, and glad you are giving him your full attention. Love to you and your dear ones.
Susan,
My brother-in-law had ALS so I understand the burden you are carrying right now. Please you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
My best,
Janet Majors
Blessings from this internet stranger for you, your husband, and your family in the days to come. Thank you for your grace and courage putting out beauty into this world under what must have been increasingly difficult circumstances.
I’m so very sorry to hear that. Sending you and your family prayers for comfort and strength.
I’m so very sorry to hear this . May these days together be filled with love and peace. Thank you for the joy you’ve brought us over the years.
I am so very sorry. My prayers and best wishes are with you and your Husband . God bless him.
Sending prayers to you and Le Monsieur. I am so sorry you are going through this, you are such a positive, upbeat force.
Oh! Somehow, through all the years I have read your blog, I knew about le Petit Monsieur but not about this evidently lovely man. I am so sorry, Susan.
Susan: I am so very sorry about your husband. I just lost mine and like yours, he wqas very ill for a while. I have no words of advice, but I want you to know that it is important for you and to you to let him know how much he means to you. We had 40 years together and I would not have exchanged one day for anything else. My deepest sympathy and empathy.
Love and strength to you and your precious family Susan xxx
Oh Susan, I’m so very sorry! Peace to you!
Sending so much love and prayers for you, your husband and son during this most difficult time. I was so sorry and shocked to hear. Your positivity, wisdom and light have carried so many of us not knowing that you were struggling, too. May the coming days surround you all with sweet memories, peace and love.
Susan, although I received this post from you, I have not received any other posts from you for a long time and did not know about what you and your husband have been going through. I am so sorry that those challenges have beset the two of you.. I have some idea of what those challenges may be, because since I received the last post from you before this one, my beloved husband has been diagnosed with, undergone arduous treatment for, and died of a very aggressive form of melanoma. I will be thinking of, and praying for each and both of you, wishing and asking for many moments of grace for both of you. All else I can offer at this time is this, which you likely already know: you will never regret any of the time you spend with your husband while he is still alive on earth. Even though you likely are physically and emotionally exhausted, try to make use of any chance you have to show him your love in some way and to express your gratitude for the life on earth you have had with him. That’s all for now. Peace be with you, Leslie .
P.S. My thoughts, wishes and prayers extend to the rest of your family, of course.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your husband and family. Without actually knowing you, I have felt so close to you over the years. You had mentioned that your husband was ill but I’m sure like most of your followers I had no idea how serious this was. I hope your love for each other and your happy memories will help you through this difficult time.
You are in my heart.
Susan, I am so terribly sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
Thinking of you and your family. Take all the time you need. We’re all here for you and yours when you need us.
I’m so very sorry, Susan. Wishing you both peace.
I’m so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers. xx
My heartfelt sadness about your husband. I have two friends younger than your husband. Watching their journey has been heartbreaking and sobering. You have a lot of love out here. Prayers.
Oh Susan,
Take all the time, I am so saddened for you that this is happening. Please know I will be thinking about you & your husband at this difficult time. Prayers, love and peace to you.
I’m so sorry to learn of the nature of your husbands illness. May God wrap his arms around you and give you peace.
Susan, praying for you and your family at this most difficult time.
Susan,
I’m so sorry to hear of this, I was unaware of his illness. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. I feel blessed that I met him when you visited our winery a few years ago. Your grace and love is all he needs right now.
Kim
This is so heartbreaking. Please spend your days with him. Lifting you and your husband with love and prayers.
Thinking of you both at this time and hoping you tap into the strength I know you have.
I am so sorry. Sending you a big hug and lots of prayers. That’s a wonderful picture of the two of you. ❤️
I am so sorry to learn this; ALS is a horrible disease, and you have met it so bravely. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time
I wish you comfort and peace.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
We must remember we are not in control of these things. this is part of living. You will be bucked off here but I know you will get back on. Be strong for the coming days, find some rest and you will be ok. Different, but OK.
Susan, I’m so sorry to hear this. My best to you and your family.
Was not aware of your husband’s illness. Sending many thoughts to you. Wishing you strength in the days ahead.
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. Of course you should be focused on him and your family. Sending heartfelt prayers and thoughts of comfort to you. God bless you, your husband and family, Susan. Take care of those close to you. We’ll all be here when you are ready. XOXO
Sending peace, love and light to you and your family.
Oh gosh, I am so sorry to read this about your husband. Please know my thoughts and my prayers are with you and your family.
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Many thoughts and prayers with you. May your many happy memories provide comfort during these difficult days, and know that so many people are thinking of you both and your family.
I’m so sorry to hear this news. You & your family are in my prayers.
I’m so sorry to hear this. You’ve been very brave and I expect he has also. My prayers are with you for peace. Jxx
There are no words but please know you are loved and supported by your community.
Oh Susan, I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this sad time.
Prayers.
Prayers and blessings to you, your husband and family. Greetings from Florida.
Susan – you have my deepest sympathies. I hope things go as well as they can over the next few days and weeks. Sending big hugs, love and light to you and yours. In such a difficult time I hope you know how much we appreciate you and feel for you. X
Susan…For some reason, I missed hearing about your husband earlier. I’m so sorry to hear of the rapid progression of his ALS. Glad to hear that you’re surrounded by the Hospice team angels. May your husband’s final days be peaceful ones…and may the support of those around you bring you comfort. ❤️
So very sorry Susan. Surrounding you and your family in love and peace
God bless you both. Reading you for years – you feel like a friend to me. I wish I could send you hugs and casseroles.
Dear Susan: You and your family are in my prayers. Sending love and gentle hugs as you navigate these days. May you have peace. I have heard hospice teams are wonderful and so glad yours is. You bring so much joy into our lives. Marian
I hold you both in my thoughts.
My thoughts are with you Susan sending you and your family hugs and kisses.
Your courage and openness are an inspiration to all of us who face challenges. ALS is a cruel condition. I pray that you and your husband are granted an extra measure of peace during this transition. God bless!
My heart goes out to you and Monsieur.
I am praying for a peaceful passing for your beloved husband and for your strength to endure this saddest of times. May legions of angels come with comfort for you both.
So sorry to hear that sad news Susan. You’ll need all your courage and strength to get through this difficult time. I’ll be thinking of you.
Oh Susan. I’m so sorry to read the news about your husband. I will be thinking of and praying for you both.
Sending you much love and strength, my friend ❤️
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Best wishes to you and all your family in this difficult time.
May all the blessings of your life together and your memories sustain you. I will look forward to your return.
After the darkness, there is always light, but that light will be different. Courage for what you have to go through.
Holding you, your husband, and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Peace to you and your family. ❤️
Susan, I just read your sad news and my heart is aching for you. Praying now for a peaceful transition for you both.
God bless you and your family, Susan.
I am so very sorry to hear this! Being a caretaker is not easy, and I am glad you are being helped by hospice. May your husband’s final days be filled with peace and love. And may you find peace and comfort in knowing that you have always been there for him.
Oh, Susan! ❤️
God Bless you Susan during this very hard time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please take good care of yourself.
Love and Prayers,
Karen
May God’s shalom surround you both, and your family, at this time and beyond.
Sending you love and strength!
Susan, you, your husband, your son and family are being lifted in prayer.
I am so very sorry to hear your news. Prayers for you and your family, even though I am far away and we have never met, I feel as though I know you and enjoy your blog. May God be with you and your husband on this journey.
Susan,
I am so sorry to hear your update. You are kind and brave to share, and to know your loyal readers (like me) send love to you.
Hugs, Ann
Oh, Susann I am so very sorry to hear this. Know you are loved by many and we are thinking of you.
My heart breaks for you. My son’s dad died of ALS and I know the heartbreak of watching a person pass from this horrific disease. My sincere condolences.
Thinking of you, your husband and your family.
You are in my prayers!
Sending love to you, Susan, to your husband, to your son and extended family.
You are surrounded by love, compassion and deep caring.
I am so so sorry, thinking of you at this difficult time.
Susan,
My heart is breaking for you. Keeping you and your family in my prayers
My prayers and love are with you, your husband and family. May God give you comfort during this difficult time!
I’m so sorry you are going thru this. Please know we are all thinking of you and your family
Dear Susan my thoughts are with you your husband son and family at this very difficult time, sending love and hugs.
My heart is with you and your family, Susan. I’m so sorry. Wishing you peace, love, and comfort.
Sorry to hear about your husband. Sending good thoughts and may you both have peace. We will be here when you are ready to blog.
Your special spirit has come through your work to help so many, do take care of your self now for as much time as you need. Sending prayers to you, your husband, your family, and the hospice team. Peace to all.
Dear Susan,
I’m so very sorry to read about your husband’s condition. You are such a brave and intelligent woman.
You are both in my prayers.
Connie
Susan, my heart goes out to you and your family during this time. Peace and blessings to you and yours.
Rona
Praying for peace and comfort for you and yours.
You are both in my thoughts and prayers. With heartfelt sympathy.
My thoughts are with you during these difficult days.
I lost my beloved sister to this terrible disease 15 years ago. My heart aches for you. Wishing you peace.
Praying for you and your family
I have followed you for years and am so sorry to learn of your husband’s devastating illness. Wishing you peace and love in your time together.
Dear Susan,
Thank you for sharing with us what you, your husband and family are going through at this time. May you be comforted knowing so many of your readers care deeply for you.
You & your husband will be in my thoughts & prayers.
Keeping you and all that love your husband in my thoughts and prayers.
We love you both.
You both are in my prayers.
how true that we never know the burdens others are carrying.
sending you best wishes and the strength you will need going forward.
I am so very sorry.
Dear Susan,
I, too, lost my seemingly healthy husband to a terminal disease. The diagnosis shook my world, but it was an honor to look after him throughout his illness, which culminated in hospice care. I pray for strength and peace for you both. God bless.
Holding you and your family in prayer.
Blessings and peace to you and your husband.
Thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time.
My heart breaks for you, Susan. Please don’t give the blog another thought for as long as you need – we’ll be right here when you decide the time is right to return. Hospice workers are truly angels on earth – I’m so glad you have their comfort right now.
Refuah shleima. I am so sorry you are going through this difficult time.
Much strength and peace to you all .
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Love to you and your family! Such heartbreak but such privilege in being there for your loved one at this time. Take good care of yourself too!
Susan – Please know my thoughts are with you and sending a virtual hug. My heart aches for you. No need for a reply. Kathy
Wishing you both strength and peace. May the love and support of family and friends hold you both during this difficult, and sad, time.
Oh, no. Susan, I am so sorry. I’m grateful to hear you have so much support, but it must still be incredibly difficult. Sending my best wishes from Virginia.
Dear Susan, I have missed your posts this week and wondered. This is really heartbreaking, I wish you and your whole family all the best as you take care of your dear husband.
Prayers for your husband and for you and your family. I am so sorry.
Thank you for sharing with us, Susan. I’m so glad you’re taking time to be present in these final days with your beloved husband. Lifting you up in prayer.
Wishing you, your husband, and your family much peace and comfort at this time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you both! This is a difficult time for you. I recently lost my mother and sister in a few short months of each other. Grief is hard.❤️
Susan,
Though I don’ know you personally, I can’t help but feel a connection to you and your life through your blog. It is heartening to know that you and your family are being supported by a band of angels in the form of a hospice team. May the words of support from this crew comfort you as you move through this difficult time.
Best,
Sandy J.
I will hold you and your husband in my prayers.
What incredibly sad news. Paul and I so enjoyed meeting up with you both when you visited London. Doug was a kind and generous man. As we say in the UK “A true gentleman”. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. Sending love and best wishes.
Susan, I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you, your husband, and your family love and support. Take care, and cherish this time with him.
Light, love & peace to you & your family.
Sending you and your husband peace and comfort during this very difficult time.
ALS is such a terrible disease. Sending prayers for you and your family in this difficult time.
Susan, love and peace to you and your family. Please know that this community is holding you close.
I’ve learned so much from you about fashion; and recently, now, about how to live through even the worst circumstances with grace and strength. Much love to you and your Monsieur as you navigate this final stretch of his journey.
Susan-
I am sending strength, love, and hope as you navigate this difficult time.
So sorry to read this. Thinking of you both. Hospices are such wonderful places, their help and support is invaluable at such a difficult time. Please look after yourself as well.
Thinking of you and your husband.
Know that I’m holding you in my heart during this difficult time.
I’m so sorry Susan. I’ve followed you for years and obviously missed this somehow. Praying for you and your family.
You and your husband are in. My prayers. ALS is a terrible disease!
Susan, I am so sorry to hear this. You, your husband and family are in my heart and prayers.
So sorry, dear Susan, may flights of angels sing him to his rest. Virtual hug.
Prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
I’ve been a reader for years. So sorry to hear. Wishing you peace and strength.
sending you caring thoughts and hugs to get you through this most difficult time
Such a tough disease. We support you and yours as you navigate this difficult time. Please take all the time you need and may you be surrounded with love.
LOVE TO ALL OF YOU!!!
I’m so sorry. Please take care.
Dear Susan, I am so sorry. Peace and love to you and your family.
Oh no, I am so very sorry. ALS is awful. My heart goes out to you.
Sending thoughts of comfort and peace to you and your family at this difficult time.
Thinking of you, your husband and your family; and sending peace and light. Wanted to let you know how much you and your blog have helped me.
Please accept my most sincere sympathy during your extremely difficult time.
Oh Susan, so sorry to hear this. I, too, had a beloved husband die at home (Alzheimers) with Hospice by our side. We’re not supposed to say, “I know how you feel.” But I kind of do. You have been such a benefit to me with your stylish but common sense advice and I wish you and Monsieur (and young Monsieur, too) all God’s blessings as you go through this godawful time. I’m throwing you the knotted rope x–x–x–x–x–x– so grab ahold if you need to, and know that I am holding on to the other end for you. Many prayers. From, Elizabeth
Susan,
I’m keeping you and your husband in my prayers as you spend these last days together. Hospice angels is a good term. The work they do and the comfort they bring is indescribable. Wishing you both peace and comfort.
Sending prayers of peace to both of you, Karen
Shall be here when you return. May the days continue to be filled with love and peace.
Susan, Remember the joy….it will always be with you. Sending you prayers and peace. Kathleen
Sending prayers to you and your family for strength, peace and love during this time of transition. Most sincerely, Kari
Susan, praying for you and your husband. I’m so sorry.
Praying for you and your family as you spend your last days with your husband.
Praying for you and your family!
Oh, so sorry to hear this. My Mother had Multiple Sclerosis, so I have some idea of the anguish caused by these diseases. will be thinking of you
I am so so sorry about your husband! Somehow I missed that he is sick. ALS is a horrible disease, both for the patient and the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in the coming days and weeks. Take care of yourself.
I’m praying for you Susan, in the days ahead…may love, memories and peace surround your heart
I am so sorry to hear this. Sending thoughts and prayers for strength, peace, and love.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Susan, you and your family are in my prayers. There are no words to make your journey easier so just know that you are thought of. Peace to you and your loved ones.
So sorry. Your husband, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m so sorry that I didn’t know about your husband’s battle. Take all the time you need, we will be here waiting when you decide to come back. The hospice folks are angels on the earth to help the passing of our loved ones.
My heart goes out to you Susan. Your priorities are in absolutely the right place. So you know, I have been reading your blog for several years, although I don’t believe I have commented before. It, and you, are a joy.
I’m so sorry to hear this. Praying for comfort and strength for you and your family.
Oh, Susan, I am so very sorry to hear this. I send my deepest wishes for peace to both you and your husband at this very difficult time. My thoughts are with you.
Dear Susan,
I am thinking of you & your family during this difficult time. May peace be with you all.
Pseu-sending white light and lots of hugs to both Doug and yourself. So very sorry to hear this.
Dear Susan,
You have been so transparent regarding your life apart from you wonderful blog. Challenges with your son, and now a devastating illness for you and your husband. May you strength of character and grace carry you to the other side of your grief journey. God bless.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sending virtual support your way…I’m so sorry that you and your family are going through this.
I am sending love and prayers for both of you.
Susan, I am so sorry. May your many happy memories and the love and support of all of your readers bring comfort during this sad and difficult time.
Thank you for sharing this sad news, Susan. May you find peace in the coming days knowing you and your husband are surrounded by so much love.
With thoughts and prayers for your husband and you. May you find Peace.
I’m so sorry Susan. I know this period is so difficult and I hope your love for each other helps sustain you and all the memories you made together give you comfort.
I am so sorry about your husband. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
So very sorry to hear your news, Susan. My heart goes out to you. Sending you strength and love across the miles,
Heartfelt prayers for you, your husband and family.
Iam very sorry Susan .. Maria
Susan, so sorry to hear your beloved is so quickly nearing end of life.
We’ll be holding you in our hearts and sending you both the most loving energy.
Take good care.❤️
-Carol
Susan, I am so very sorry to learn about the rapid decline in your husband’s health. Sending all my good wishes as you and he move through this most difficult and sad journey. Thinking of you and your family. We will all be here when you come back.
My heart breaks for you and your family. I thank you so very much for the joy you have brought into my life as I pray for you.
God bless you
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. May you find comfort in all the good memories you share.
You are all in my thoughts, may time please be kind.
Praying for your dear husband. This has been a rough road, handled with grace.
Take care of what’s important, priorities of family are all that matters.
Sending love.
Dear Susan and family
So sad to hear of your husband’s illness — had no idea he had been suffering for many months .
Wishing you strength and courage — my thought are with you during this challenging time.
Have always enjoyed your travels and your husband’s joint efforts at presenting your lovely pics of the outfits on your blog and wonderful places you visited . May these wonderful memories sustain you during this really difficult time
Sending love ❤️ and prayers ❤️ sincerely Irene Bowman
I had absolutely no idea that your husband was so ill and can only say that the two of you and your son are in my thoughts at this very sad time.
You have been amazing posting whilst going through this dreadful time in your life. Don’t give us a second thought, we’ll be here waiting for you whenever you feel you want to return.
Susan D
Dear Susan…….so, so very sorry to hear this news. Remember when you posted that your husband was ill and wondered how he was doing. Bless you for continuing your wonderful blog. Take all the time you need…..will be here when you are ready to resume. Will keep you all in my prayers.
I am so very sorry. Sending light and love to you and your family. I’ll be thinking of you.
Susan,
I wish peace and grace for you and your family at such a hard time. I’m sure your presence and love are an enormous comfort to your husband.
Thinking of you and so sorry you and he are going through this. Take all the time you need. Ellie Bonner
Peace and blessings to you and your family during this difficult time.
Joan
Sending prayers for a peaceful transition to your husband and to you at this time in between.
Please take good care of yourself.
There are no words that can comfort you at this time but know that there is much love and kind supportive thoughts surrounding you, your husband and son as you walk this unfamiliar path together. May God gently hold your family in his hand and grant you strength in the coming weeks.
A.LeB
I’m so very sorry to read your latest email. There are no words. Will be thinking of you xx
May God bless your family with comfort and peace. My heart goes out to you and especially your husband. ❤️❤️
Oh I am so sorry to hear about your husband. Prayers for Peace, Love, Comfort and Strength for you and your family during this difficult time.
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband’s illness. Thanks for thinking of your followers. I’m glad your focus will be on your husband and your family.
Wishing you peace and strength.
Oh Susan, sending strength and love to you, your husband, family & support team.
Susan,
Prayers go with you. May your husband be without suffering. Take Care.
Nancy
So sorry to hear your news. Peace be with you and your Husband. You are a lovely lady and I enjoy your blog immensely.
Oh Susan, I’m so sorry to hear this. I wish you strength and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
My heart breaks for you! Please take good care
I’m so very sorry you’re going through such a difficult and profound time. Please know your readers are here sending you love, support and all sorts of caring and healing thoughts. xxx
So very sorry Susan. Peace, strength and love to your family.
You so kindly responded to me with a very personal email when I had questions about a trip to Paris and Epernay. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Susan. I hope you find comfort and peace in this difficult time.
Susan, I’m so very sorry. The joy you have given us, your readers, reflects the joy you two must have shared. Peace to you and your family.
Adding my love and wishes for comfort to the outpouring from here, to you, your husband, and family.
Much love to you and your son.
Dear Susan. I read all of your blogs, you are such a positive influence on so many people and as others have said – your dignity and grace is inspiring. Sending positive energy and peace to you and your family during this difficult time.
Anna from Arizona.
You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers…I’m so sorry…and thank you for all the ways you have helped me with packing and finding my style.
Oh I am so very sorry to hear about your husband, Susan. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, even if I do not know you or your husband. I always look forward to reading yours posts and blogs about traveling (especially to Paris where I have not yet been!!) and your fashion tips/ideas. I am glad to hear you have a good team around you rigt now.
R’fuah sh’lemah, Susan. My heart goes out to you and your husband. My father-in-law had ALS as well.
I’m stunned that I somehow missed that post about your husband health. Please accept my apologies for not sending my prayers sooner. They are coming for you and him now. I know how difficult this time can be so please just spend time with him and the family. Cherish every minute. ❣️.
Dear Susan, Sending love and prayers to you and your family in this difficult time.
I know how difficult these times are for you and your family and I offer you my prayers of support. Please don’t even think about this blog during this time –
Prayers for you and your family
Oh Susan…I am so very sorry. As an “old” nurse, I know how difficult this is for you and your family.
Your husband, while he may not have known it, has been such a delight to your readers.
I wish him a calm and safe passage to whatever adventure is next.
Jan Richmond Whichard
Dearest Susan, my heart aches for you and your family. Be with your husband and family and remember your husband as he was before this horrible disease came along. Sending you lots of prayers.
With warmest thoughts, Gitte
I did not know about your husband’s diagnosis. Peace and love to you and your family as you spend your last days together. I am so heartbroken for you and your family. Take good care of yourself and take all the time you need. I will hold you all in my thoughts.
Dear Susan, my prayers are with you and your family. I read this many years ago,
“grief is the price we pay for love”
Mary Ann
Reading through the posted comments it’s so clear you have your entire community standing with you in love and support. I hope you can lean into us whenever you find yourself needing that.
Very sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself. Sending love and prayers.
May you get the strength to deal with the difficult time ahead.
My prayers for you and your family.
So very sorry to read this. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Faithful follower
Sandra Matthews
So sad, sending love to you and your family. I can’t imagine your pain.
I am so very sorry for you and your family. I hope many happy memories will comfort you in the days ahead. Take all the time you need to get back to your blog. I and your many fans will be here when you feel up to returning.
May these final days together bring profound meaning, beyond measure. It is my hope that the memories created provide peace and comfort that will sustain you and your family in the days ahead. With heartfelt sympathy from a grateful reader…
Sending you both love and prayers from Michigan
Jan
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
May you find the strength you need.
So sorry to hear, sending love.
Sorry to hear about your husband. What a terrible disease. Mat hospice keep him comfortable and give you the support you need. Many prayers.
Susan – my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult and emotional time. Take care and know we are all thinking of you.
May you and your family be surrounded with peace and love.
I’m so sorry, Susan. This is important time for your husband, you and your family. Sending you good vibes of strength, comfort and peace. As Ram Dass says, we’re all walking each other home.
Take good care of yourself.
Helen ❤️
I hope you are both surrounded by love and compassion and that you can feel in each other’s presence the transmission of the love you have long shared, wordless, present, sustaining. And how that endures. Holding you both in my heart.
Oh, Susan, I’m so sorry! Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family.
I am so sorry that you and your family are going through this difficult time. I know that all of us, who have or are, experiencing illness, health concerns, daily challenges, or death with ourselves or loved ones, find ourselves sending prayers, love, and healing energy in any way we can. May your time together in earth life treat you gently in your needs. May you find comfort in the smallest of moments. You are never alone. There is always a presence, a form of support, a helper, a comforter, even if we don’t physically see them, they are with us and for us.
So very sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this. May you all be surrounded by God’s light and love.
Dee Porter
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.
So sorry to hear this! Take all the time you need to get through this time. We will be here when you are ready to come back. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so very sorry, Susan.
Dear Susan I’ve been following your blog for a few years from the UK and I am so sorry to hear your sad news. You are in my thoughts during this very difficult time.
Such sad news you’ve shared. May God give you peace and comfort during this difficult time. Thank you for all you’ve done for the une femme d’un certain age community.
Susan, I pray you and your family are covered in comfort and strength at this very difficult time in your lives. I will continue to pray that in the days ahead you will reach a sense of peace and rest.
You and your family are surrounded by our love.
Thinking of you at this terribly sad time.
Susan, I am so sorry to hear this news. You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers.
My heart goes out to you and your family Susan.
Dear Susan,
I am saddened by the news about your husband ” Le Monsieur”. Your ability to continue sending posts despite this terrible illness is most impressive. You must be a very strong person. I hope your fond memories of your many travel adventures with le monsieur will comfort you in the days and years to come.
Take good care.
Beth, I am thinking of you at this difficult time. Take all the time you need with your family.
Judy
Susan — Our hearts are with you in this difficult time.
My heart breaks hearing this news. Please take care of you during this time, navigating this sad journey. Lean on your hospice team…they are there for you both. Wishing you strength and peace.
I had no idea. I am so sorry. I hope your close friends and family lift you up and support you through these days. You are not alone. Sending love and strength.
Dear Susan,
I love how you endearingly call him le monsieur. Wishing you peace and strength in the days ahead.
I am so sorry about your husband’s ALS. I know what you’re going through as we have been through ALS with a family member. It’s a horrible disease and my hope is there will be better treatments in the future.. I hope you know you have so many followers who support you and wish only the best for you and your family.
Oh, Susan, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I’ve had two friends pass away from ALS. It’s brutal. Take all the time you need away from the blog! You have many faithful followers. ♥️
My heart breaks for you. Sending love and light. Wishing peace for both of you.
Susan, Your family is in my prayers. Please know that you are in the thoughts and hearts of the readers of this post.
So sorry to hear your sad news, Susan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sending love to you and your family as you walk this road together.
So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.
Sending you wishes of strength and serenity. For your husband, peace and comfort. Having recently lost a loved one I understand how draining it can be. Take care of yourself.
Peace to you and your family.
Oh, Susan. I am so very sorry to hear this! My heart is breaking for you. I am sending prayers and hugs for you and your dear husband.
So very sorry. May this time be as peaceful & pain-free as possible. My thoughts are with you.
Oh my goodness, Susan. I’m afraid I missed that sad news. I’m so sorry. Wishing both of you peace and comfort.
These hours are precious.
May comfort and love come to you and all in your circle.
I am so so very saddened to learn that your husband is so very ill. I had no idea. Susan, I am so sorry. My heart goes our to you and your family. Take care. ❤️
So sorry to hear this, you have always put forward such a positive face, I would never have guessed the trials you were facing. Sending hugs to you and your family. Love this picture!!
My thoughts are with you and your family during this very trying time.
Sending prayers for peace at this difficult time. You, your husband, and family are in my thoughts.
I am so sorry to read this.
I’m so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
What can I say that hasn’t already been said! You are in my prayers. Please take care of yourself!
Please accept my sincere sympathy. There is no more difficult time than the loss of a spouse or child. I hope you find some small comfort in the knowledge that your readers support you and your family. You are in my prayers.
My heart goes out to you❤️
So very sorry to hear this, Susan.
My brother’s life has never been easy, but even during his darkest times, he has loved and supported us with the most generous soul I’ve ever known. Whenever I’ve needed him, he’s always said quietly, “I’m holding you in my heart.” I hope it comforts you as much as it always has me to know that all of us here hold you in ours.
My thoughts and prayers are for your family. You have shown so much grace under fire. Blessings.
You will be missed. Sending Good Wishes to You, Your Husband, Family, and Friends.
Thinking of you and yours and remembering your travels with your husband.
Oh Susan, so very sorry to hear this. I hope you can feel all the love that is being sent your way xxx
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
So sorry to hear this. May you find peace and comfort during
this time. The wonderful Hospice people are truly angels to
help your husband and you. Take care as best you can.
Sending prayers and virtual hugs to you at this difficult time.
No need to respond, Susan. Just know your family is in my thought and prayers.
Sending you and your family prayers as you go through this very difficult journey.
Dear Susan-I am so very sorry to hear about your husband. My family was also touched by ALS and I absolutely know what you are all feeling and dealing with at this difficult time. I am so very happy that you and your husband were able to travel as much as you have. Cherish those memories! Stay strong and take care.
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband, Susan. I’m thinking of you during these difficult days.
Susan, I’m so, so sorry.
Susan,
Thank you for updating us as I have been thinking of you and your husband. We are all here for you and praying for you both during this very difficult time. Love to you both. xox
Dearest Susan, I am currently sitting vigil in Pittsburgh with my sister who is in her final days of ALS. Peace. Be at peace sister.
Oh, Susan, I’m so sorry. I wish we could help. I’m about 7 months ahead of you on this journey – reach out if I can do anything.
I’m so sorry. Take all the time you need.
Susan please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray you find strength,comfort and peace during this difficult time. I pray your husband has a peaceful transition. Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us along with your fashion journey. Sending you love from Texas!
May peace surround you during this difficult journey. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your dear husband, and family.
What terribly difficult days for you, your husband and your family. I’m incredibly sorry to hear this news and very glad that you are surrounded by love, care and support from friends, family and professionals.
Sending prayers to you and your family … you are exactly where you need to be
I am so very sorry to learn if this. My heart goes out to you truly. Although we haven’t met personally I am close to where you live and if there is anything I can do for you please let me know.
I am so sorry. There aren’t words; so just know that you have quite a group of people here for you.
My heart breaks for you as I know this story. My daughter has ALS. The disease is relentless. Sending good thoughts and wishes for peace and comfort.
Renee Olcheski
I am so sorry for you and your family. Hospice workers are definitely angels. I will be thinking of you.
Wishing you both peace and love at this difficult time.
I’m sending love and virtual hugs to you and your family.
Darling Susan, you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Emily
Susan, I’m so very sorry that your husband’s health situation has taken a turn for the worse. Sending lots of good thoughts and prayers your way.
Susan, So sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Catherine UK
I am so sorry this is happening to you and your family Susan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
Blessing on you and Monsieur – these are very tough times to get through and I wish you all love and support.
Have followed the site for years and appreciate the light you are in the world!
With love…
Much love to you ❤️
Devastating news. May you find the strength you need during this extraordinary time. Sending all good wishes and thoughts your way
So sorry to hear about your husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
I didn’t know your husband had ALS. I will keep you in my prayers.
Sorry to hear it.
Thank you for sharing so much time with us through your posts. My thoughts are with you and your family now.
So very sorry to hear this –
My thoughts are with you during this transitional time.
Take good care of you, too!
Sending prayers your way. Glad you have Hospice to help as they are wonderful.
I’m sorry to hear about your husband’s prognosis. Your family will be in my prayers. It’s helpful to have the hospice nurses to help you on this difficult road. May the coming days be comfortable and peaceful for your husband. I hope that you and your son feel the community’s strength and caring for your family. Take all the time you need, and we will be here when you are ready. I love the photo of the two of you above, you both look so happy.
Susan,
I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.
So very, very sorry, Susan. The community you’ve built here is sending much love your way. Please take care.
Susan, so sorry to read this message this morning. May peace, comfort & grace surround you, your husband & loved ones in these fragile days. Heartfelt hugs, prayers & blessings as you hold your Beloved in Light & Love (( ))
Oh Susan….. I am so very sorry! You absolutely are doing what you need to do! And we applaud your first-priority decision to take a break. Please know that we are praying for your husband and for your family. No doubt this must be the most difficult of seasons. And know also that we will be right here when you do come back online…. but we don’t want you to feel any need to be back before you are ready!
What a beautiful photo of you and your husband. I am thinking of you now as you share precious days together. Take gentle care of yourself.
I’m so sorry, Susan. I’m glad you have hospice to help you both. I’ll be thinking of you in the days to come.
Sincerely,
A grateful reader
“Take all the time you need. We will be here for you.
Dear Susan,
I don’t think I have ever commented before, but I find your posts so interesting and life-enhancing. Thank you so much for the research that you do on our behalf and for all your words of wisdom.
I am so sorry to hear about your husband and I hope you find the inner strength and endurance to cope with this situation. I, one among many, am certainly keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Bless you.
Vicki Mullan.
very best wishes at this sad time. may god’s blessings shower down upon you snd your family.
Dear Susan,
Although I only know you through your blog, you’ve become a friend after all these years and I’m so sad for you and your husband. Praying for you both, and as others have said, please don’t worry about us and take all the time you need to adjust and grieve. We’ll be here for you when you resume. XOXO
I am so sorry Susan. I know how devastating it is to see a loved one decline (in my case Parkinson’s/dementia). My prayers for you and your husband—that you will experience love and peace, while focusing on all the good times you have had together.
Thinking of you Susan – take care of yourself……
I am thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. Your column is so appreciated.
Take care
Jean D
I am so sorry to hear the sad news about your husband. it is so very difficult to lose someone who is so dear to you. Please take all the time you need to attend to the needs of your husband, yourself and your family. Fashion will always be there when you are able to come back to it as will all of your supportive followers. ✨️
No words. Wishing you strength
Broken for you. Prayers of peace and comfort.
Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family as you go through this final transition for your husband.
As a recent subscriber, I didn’t know about your husband’s diagnosis. Your fortitude and attitude are to be admired. Sending prayers.
I can only imagine how hard this is for your family and for him. Heartbreaking for everyone. I have seen the two of you only through pictures but it seems to be a very full and precious relationship.
My thoughts are with you and your family, Susan. My father-in-law had ALS; I know this has been a difficult path for you and your husband. Take care.
Susan, so very sorry to hear of your husband’s ALS. May you feel God’s boundless love and compassion daily. I will keep you both in my prayers.
I add my voice to the many. We hold you and your family in our thoughts and hearts.
Please know that I am sending my prayers and support to you, your husband and son during this difficult time.
Dear Susan,
There is nothing I can say to ease your sorrow. My husband passed suddenly and tragically in January and I can only offer my prayers for you and yours.
Bonnie
Sending love and peace to you, your husband and your family. You are so loved.
I am so sorry. Sending my prayers and best wishes
I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your husband in my prayers.
Susan, I am so sorry. Prayers for you and your family. You have incredible strength and deserve all the time you need for you and your husband and your family.
Thinking of you in this difficult time and praying for you and your husband. Don’t worry about the blog or rush your return — your readers will be here whenever you’re ready to return.
Oh Susan, I’m so sorry you are both going through this incredibly difficult time. Sending hugs & the kindest comforting wishes.
Including your family in my Misheberach prayer this Shabbat. Prayers for strength and peace.
Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.
Joshua 1:9
Oh my Susan….please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your dear husband during this difficult time.
Susan, Holding you, your husband and your family in my thoughts and heart.
My thoughts are with you in this difficult time. I didn’t realize how sick he was. You are a real trooper to do everything you do. Please try to take care of YOU as much as you can.
I am so sorry. I hope you and your family will find peace and comfort
Just sending my support and my prayers. My husband has been diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia and Parkinson’s so I understand the journey you are on. Wishing you strength in the days ahead!
I am so sorry to learn about this. One of my close friends had ALS… a terrible disease. Hope you are both finding a bit of peace in the midst of such a difficult time.
Leoni McVey
So very sorry to learn of your news. Prayers!
I am so very, very sorry for you and your family. You and your family are in my prayers.
I’m so sorry. Sending prayers your way for you and your family.
Sending thoughts and prayers that your husband’s journey is eased by the love, support and extra special care by those surrounding him. And, that your journey is likewise eased…God bless.
Dear Susan,
I am so sorry to read your husband is nearing the end. What a cruel disease ALS is and how tough for you watching his rapid decline. It must be comforting now to know that your husband is in the best of care and surrounded by the love of you and your family. Please look after yourself and do not return to your wonderful blog until fully ready.
Dear Susan, You are on my mind constantly. There just don’t seem to be any adequate words to express my sorrow for you. I am so very sorry.
Roseanna
I’m so sorry to hear this. I hope you take strength from knowing how much your followers care about you and hold you and your husband in our thoughts.
Dear Susan,
Elizabeth and others have said what I’m feeling as well. You have created a lovely community & so many are here to support you with sweet messages of support.
It is an extremely tough & emotional time.
Sending my warmest wishes and hugs.
Elle
Dear Susan,
I’m so sorry to hear that your husband has taken a turn for the worse. I’m sure he’s glad to have you by his side, offering your love and support. I will keep both of you in my thoughts and prayers.
So sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself as you take care of your family.
I’m so sorry to hear this news about your husband. I will keep you, your husband and your family in my prayers.
Jane Tobler
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Loya
So sorry to hear this…you, your husband and your family will be in my prayers.
My deepest sympathies and prayers Susan to you and your family..
I was wondering how Le Monsieur was doing. I am so sorry to hear that his condition has worsened, but I know that ALS is a cruel disease. My prayer is that your husband’s discomfort will be minimized and that your strength and peace will be renewed each day. I am also thinking of your son during this difficult time.
Dear Susan,
It breaks my heart to hear this. So very sorry about what is happening. Please know you are loved and thought of by me and so many others. Take in every moment and make precious memories. Hoping that love, peace, and comfort surround you, your husband, son, and extended family at this tender time.
We will keep you both in our hearts and prayers during this difficult journey.
Glad you have the Hospice angels with you. We have a recently diagnosed family member. Just the worst disease. Glad you had good time together and repeatedly, glad you have the Hospice Angels.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Holding you and your family in my heart, and in my prayers.
I’m so sorry to read this, Susan. I’ll be thinking of you in the coming days, and sending prayers for strength and peace. Take care of yourself. ❤️
Sending prayers to you and your family.
You and he will be in my thoughts. Wishing you both peace.
Praying for you and your family.
Please know you are in my prayers. I have first hand knowledge of this terrible disease through my uncle’s family who have lost 3 to ALS.
I hope you feel God’s peace during this time.
Cindy
I’m so very sorry. Wishing you peace.
Send you and your family peace.
So very sorry to hear of the sadness you and your family are facing. Your dignity and courage does you credit. Stay strong during these dark days.
I am so very sorry that your family is going through this. What a loss for you all. Sending peace your way.
Totally heartbroken for you and your family. May you be blessed with the love you have shared with your husband. Peace and love to you both .
Please know you all have my prayers at this time! So very sorry.
I am so sorry Susan. I didn’t realize. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
My thoughts are with you Susan. Such a tough time for you. Take care of yourself.
I am so sorry to read this Susan. Sending all best thoughts and prayers that your husband will be comfortable and you and the rest of your family at peace.
Thank you for many hours of fun and a greater understanding of fashion while reading your blog. Hoping you are surrounded by much love. My heartfelt condolences.
Sue, sending strength & good energy in your direction. Thank you for the update. –BethS
Oh Susan I have not been paying attention. Take all the time you can. So very sorry.
Susan,
May God comfort you. Your strength has shone through all these years.
Damn! Life is precious and so hard.
May these days pass gently… and know we are all holding your hands, virtually.
Me and the gang will be here when you return.
xoxoxoxoxoxox
Peace to you both.
Susan, I am so sorry to hear the news about your husband. Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.
Hugs
Val
My heart is with you. You’re like a friend I check in with every day. Strength for you ♥️
I’m so very sorry, Susan. This is time to focus on your family. May your dear husband be without discomfort and at peace.
Holding you and your family in my heart.
God Bless you and him.
I am saying a prayer right now.
Tomorrow at Mass you will all be entered in the book of prayer intentions at our parish.
When two or more are gathered….
Oh, Susan, I’m just heartbroken for you. Cherish your time with Le Monsieur. We’ll be here for you whenever you feel ready to return.
Oh Susan. I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
I’m so sorry Susan that you and your husband are going through this. Take care of yourself. This blog and your followers will be here when you are ready. You have more important things to attend to now.
Comfort and Peace to you and your family.
Dear Susan, I am so sorry to hear your news. You and your husband are in my prayers. Take all the time that you need and want. As someone else here said, fashion will always be there and all your followers will be here to.
Many, many blessings in this difficult time.
Like my fellow readers, I send my heartfelt best wishes for you, your Monsieur and your family at this time. We all are holding you in our hearts, sending you virtual hugs, and will be waiting for your return when you feel ready to write again.
All of us out here are thinking of you as you do what you need to do.
I am so sorry to hear this about your beloved le Monsieur. Wishing you and your family peace at this difficult time.
Dearest Susan,
So sorry to hear of your husband’s diagnosis. Offering prayers for comfort and peace for you both and all family and friends who are blessed to have you in their life.
Sending caring thoughts to you as you spend this sacred time with your husband. It is truly your final gift to him.
You will be missed but know you’ll be back when the time is right.
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Dear Susan,
I have quietly followed you for years, and appreciated your blog.
I am so sorry your husband is so ill.
I think you’re a strong woman and handle eventualities with elegance and grace.
Rusty Rodriguez
Oh, Susan! I am so sorry to read of this. Please know that you are loved and supported by this community. Sending strength and peace to you and your husband as you make this difficult transition.
I am so very sorry – had missed the specifics of his diagnosis. Wishing you all as gentle a transition as possible.
I have no words. But im glad that it sounds like you and your family have found the love and support you need at this difficult time
Susan, This is sad news. I pray that in his last days with you and your family there will be peace for all of you.
May you feel the loving, caring thoughts of the online community you have embraced with such grace through the years. God’s strength and peace be with you and Monsieur, dear friend.
Susan,
I am so sorry to hear that your beloved husband is so ill. I am so happy that you traveled and enjoyed so many adventures together that you’ve shared on your blog. Take care of yourself. Your readers will welcome you back with love when you are ready.
Vicki
Sending prayers for strength and peace for you, your husband and your family. We’re not going anywhere Susan. Take the time you need to tend your husband and yourself on this final part of his earthly journey.
I will think of you the next time my husband irritates me and be grateful for our time together.
God bless you both.
You and he are in our thoughts.
—Judith
Sorry to hear this news.Thinking of you and your husband during this time.
Hi Susan, we’ve never met, but I worked with your husband just before he retired. He was an amazing person with such a wonderful and caring soul. I’ve been thinking a lot about both of you lately, and my prayers are with you and your family. God speed.
I am so very sorry to hear your news. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Dear Susan,
I have never written before, but I must do so now. I’ve followed and greatly enjoyed your blog for a long time. I was actually a French major WAY back, so of course j’adore all the French aspects of your posts.
You had mentioned a while ago that your husband was ill, but I did not realize the extent of the disease. ALS is such a terror. I just want you to know that I am truly sorry about your latest news and I will be thinking about you both and hoping for a peaceful end. I am now 67 but lost my first husband to cancer when I was 39, so I know a bit of what you’re going through. Life is tough, but you seem to be a wonderful, strong, resilient woman with lots of support. I believe that friends and loved ones do get us through the toughest of times.
Votre amie,
Barbara from NC
I am so sorry. You have handled this with grace and dignity, while continuing to engage your readers with excellent and thoughtful posts. I hope your husband’s final journey is very peaceful. Please take time for yourself before you return to us. Will be thinking of you.
So sorry to hear this update. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Please take care of yourself and take all the time you need.
Much love to you, Susan.
Susan – so very sorry to hear this update. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan, I am so very sorry, and sending love and strength. xoxoxo
Hello,
First time commentor here and wanted to stop and share that I am saying prayers for you, your husband, and your family and friends. Having had multiple prior experiences with serious illness and loss both personally and professionally, I wish you all peace and comfort with each other and during each day, as many as God grants you. I have read your blog via specific links through Wardrobe Oxygen and other sites and appreciate your hard work and content creativity. No matter how far into the future you read this, know this reader cares-even if we have never met in ‘real’ life.
Susan I am so saddened to know that your husband is not doing so well. Thank you for letting us know. I have followed your writing for many years. Even though I don’t really know you, please know that you and your family are truly in my thoughts during this time.
So saddened to hear about your husband, Susan. Sending you, him, and your entire family blessings.
Oh, dear Susan, my heart is with you. These are amazingly difficult times. We’re all there for you.
Thinking of you Susan, and sending prayers for you, your husband, and family. My brother David died of ALS several years ago. It is a terrible disease and I am so sorry for both of you and the suffering.
Holding you all on the light.
Susan, my heart goes out to the two of you. Much love and prayers to your family.
I am so sorry to hear this news and I will think of you often in the coming days. You have been an inspiration to me for years. I hope you can feel the love from your community during this difficult time.
So, so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. and may you continue to find comfort knowing he is no longer suffering. May his memory be a blessing.
I am so sorry. You have been an inspiration to all of us. May the Lord bless and keep you and bring you peace at le Monsieur’s passing. Rest is important at this time, so please take your time.
I am sorry for your great loss. I wish you peace, and the ability to bring happy memories to your mind, even for brief moments.
Most sincere and heartfelt condolences, Susan.
Praying for you and your family. May God grant you love and peace.
Oh, I am so sad for your loss. Blessings on you and your family as you grieve your husband.
I am so very sorry for your loss, Susan! My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take as much time as you need. We will be here waiting when you are ready to return.
So sorry to hear of your husband’s passing. Blessing to you and your families.
My deepest condolences
Sending my sincere sympathies at the passing of your husband. May joyful memories and knowing he’s no longer suffering sustain you during this difficult time.
I’m so sorry. You’re in my thoughts. I wish you peace and comfort.
Susan, I am so so sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers your way.
There are just no words. So sorry Susan.
My heartfelt condolences for your loss.
Sincere condolences from a long time, silent reader.
Take care,
Marie
Wrap yourself in warm memories, Susan. And know so many people are thinking of you.
May you find an abundance of peace as you navigate the void you feel with the passing of your dear husband. God bless!
Dear Susan,
I am so sad to hear of “Le Monsieur” ‘s passing and l am so sorry for your loss. I so enjoyed seeing the two of you on your blog when you were traveling together and hearing of your adventures.
Sending you love and support.
Take care of yourself,
Francesca B
So very sorry Susan. Sending love and light to you and your family.
So very sorry for your loss.
My condolences Susan. I lost my darling husband to cancer on Easter Sunday this year so I can appreciate your sense of loss. May the love of family and friends carry you through this difficult time.
Pauline in London
I am so very sorry for your loss, Susan. No matter how long you expect the worst, you are never ready. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you in this most difficult time. Sincerely!!
Linda W.
Dear Susan, I have followed you for many years and feel as though you and your family are friends. I am so sorry for your loss and hope your friends and family will be a great source of support and happy memories.
Dear Susan, I was just wondering how things were with your husband after I read your post last week. I’m so sorry to learn that he has passed away, but glad that it was peaceful and that you are being taken care of and supported. All the very best from Ottawa, Canada
My heart is with you ..
I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your son during this difficult time.
Deepest, deepest condolences and sympathy dear Susan. May comfort and love surround you.
I’ve been following your blog for at least 8 years and have never left a comment. I mourn with you. You’re in my prayers.
Ah, Sue. All my love.
How extremely sad – my own family recently suffered a similar loss, and we wish you love, help and support from family and friends to – much sympathy to you and all who loved “le Monsieur”.
Dear Susan, I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and strength to you and your son xoxo
so sorry for your loss. Prayers for peace for all of you.
I have enjoyed your blog so much the past few years. Please take as much time off as you need, we will be here thinking of you.
so very sorry–prayers and condolences for you all.
So very sorry for your loss…keeping you in my prayers.
I am so sad to hear this news, Susan. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Please accept my deepest and sincerest condolences for your tremendous loss. May your beloved’s soul rest in peace.
I am so sorry to hear that your lovely husband has passed away and wish you long life.
Susan D
I’m so sorry Susan. Peace to you, Lianne.
Sending deep condolences on the passing of your husband. I know you were the light of his life up until the very end. May his memory be a blessing.
I’m so sorry to learn of the loss of your husband, my thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Susan,
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I know you miss him. Let your family and your memories be your strength.
Condolences, Susan. “Le Monsieur” appeared in your accounts as a kind, interesting, adventurous person, and this is a huge loss to you and your families.
Rest in Peace, le Monsieur. Grace and peace be with Susan and her family.
Sending peace-filled thoughts your way. My husband lost a brother to ALS August 5, 2022.
He lived with the disease for five years. Incredibly hard. Grieve. Cry. Scream and yell, and know that you are not alone in any of this.
I haven’t commented before but your work has inspired me as I navigate the end of my paid working career and the start of retirement. I’m so very sorry for your loss and hope that you’re able to spend time with the family and friends who love you.
Oh Susan, heartbreaking. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Susan, I’m so, so sorry. He looks like such a lovely man. xoxoxo
God bless you Susan. May your husband rest in peace. You have been so brave!
I’m so very, very sorry to hear your sad news, I had no idea that your husband was suffering with such a devastating and debilitating disease. I first started reading your blog while living in Germany (and now back home in Cheltenham in the U.K.). I imagine there are others worldwide who, like myself will be sending you their love and sympathy.
I am so sorry for your loss. ALS is a terrible disease so my heart goes out to you.
I am so sorry for your loss, and please know that many, many friends, both those you have met and those you have not, are lifting you up with care & love.
Sending all my love and support, Susan. I’m so sorry to hear this incredibly sad news and I am thinking about you.
Peace be with you Susan
God Bless You and your family.
I’m so sorry. Please know I am thinking of you.
Dear Susan,
I am so very, very sorry to hear this. I lost my husband 3 years ago after a very brief illness. There truly are no words that I can offer that will make this easier or less painful for you much as I wish there were.
Please be kind and patient with yourself – grief is indeed a process. Although everyone experiences grief in different ways, I can say that in my case, while it has not gone away, it is not always front and center in my mind these days. Although my world was very grey for a while, the sun has returned and life, once again, has color.
I will continue praying for you and your family – for comfort and for peace.
Sending you love.
My deepest condolences, Madame.
Susan
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May his memory be a blessing.
Take the time to heal –
Susan Y.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please take all the time you need to care for yourself and your family, and then take some extra time too.
We will be here whenever you are ready.
I am so very sorry for your loss, Susan. Sending love to you and your family.
I am so sorry. Sending thoughts of strength and courage for you and your family during this difficult time.
Susan, I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙁
Kindly, Pamela
I, too, have lost my husband. Prayers for you and your families! You are not alone in this grief journey. Peace Be With You!
I’m so sorry for this very hard loss. You r life together truly embodied joie de vivre, and I know you’ll miss him terribly. Peace to you at this hard season.
Susan, I am so sorry for your your loss. Wishing you and your family all the best. Elizabeth
I somehow missed this post. I am so sorry for your loss. ALS is a terrible disease, and we’re only starting to get some treatments that help delay progression. The researchers I work with at MGH are hopeful. I saw your post about your travels this morning, and was happy for you that you have so many wonderful memories.
So very sorry for your loss ALS is a horrid disease and takes so much courage to be a caregiver to your most precious husband. Prayers for you and your family.
I am so sorry for you loss. I just read this. Your travel tribute was an excellent way to remember the good times. I hope, when you get through the memorials and the paperwork, that you can, once again travel
Best wishes
I have been following your blog for at least a decade, but hadn’t checked in in a while and I had no idea your husband was ill. I am so glad that the two of you had time to enjoy each others’ company and travel in recent years. This is so clumsily written and I am finding that words are failing me. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
I’m so sorry, my heart is with you.
Susan,
I am so very sorry to hear this – my deepest condolences to you and your family. May his memory be a blessing.
I am so sorry about your husband. I’ve been very behind in my reading over the last month or so but you are in my thoughts.
Susan, I know this is quite late, but I just now have seen this news and want to join all of your readers in expressing my heartfelt sympathy to you on the loss of your dear husband. May his memory be a blessing now and always. Thinking of you.
i am so sorry for your loss! I have been reading your blog for years and always enjoyed hearing about your trips with le Monsieur. you seemed to be very happy together. ❤️ take care.